It's days like today that it is sometimes hard to find things to delight in, yet I have the need to blog. You know, vent your feelings. I have a tenancy to keep my frustration inside and not let it out. Or when I have been hurt by someone I can seem to express my feelings of expression to everyone but that ONE person. Well, I don't want this post to be a vent post, I am going to try and find the good in it, something that I can delight in. So here it is....
I delight in the future
So boys, not the most pleasant subject in the world. But lately, having major frustrations with them [boys], has made me realize what I really want in a guy, and having an eternal perspective helps a lot. Right now it seems that the world is crashing down around you, but in the FUTURE, you definitely see that it truly all did work out the way it supposed to. At least it does for me. I realize that the guy or we can add situation here too, really wasn't what you want for life, but it just seemed that way at the moment because your heart was to tied up in what was going on. Times like these are times when you really do need your "spiritual eyes" to see past the world. Parents and friends are a major help in this. They help you realize that you are better off. And like the old saying goes, there are other fish in the sea.
So how can I and all of delight in such situations where we truly feel that our heart has been ripped out of our chest, but in a blender, and then placed back, expecting us to love again?
Look to the Future, and one day you will catch up to it. One day, I am going to have a man who is truly the man of my dreams. He is going to be my prince in shining armor and I am going to be his princess and he will treat me that way every day together. And my friend said it perfectly, "You need to feel gaga for him and long to see him again and have him hold you in his arms, then he is worth it. You need to find a guy who worships the ground you walk on as well as who makes you weak at the knees." We should delight that someday we will be able to live the fairytale and live happily ever after.
Haven't you ever seen the cute couples and you say "Someday I want to have what they have." A lot of time I see this with newlyweds, but I love it even more when I see it in middle aged adults and especially in older people. It's always so sweet to hear a man in his late sixties or seventies talk about his "sweetheart" or "my queen." That's what I want. I want to be in love the rest of my life, just not now and just not for a short time. I want love for all eternity.
So that's what I delight in today, knowing that someday my prince charming in going to come riding his white horse (per say), I will get to be that elderly couple who still holds hands and you can see the love they have for each other that grows each day. That's what I am going to have and so much more, and I delight knowing that my future is bright and full of happiness.
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